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Phrases That Kill Your Credibility
and What to Say Instead

The words you choose in high-stakes situations are more powerful than you think. According to communication research, subtle language patterns can instantly trigger trust or skepticism in the listener's brain. Whether you're pitching to investors, leading a team meeting, or negotiating a raise, certain phrases act as invisible credibility destroyers that undermine your authority before you've finished your sentence.
In my two decades in the career ladder watching career trajectories skyrocket (or stall), I've witnessed how language patterns directly impact professional advancement. The most successful leaders have eliminated these credibility-killing phrases from their vocabulary and replaced them with power language that commands respect.
Ever notice how some people can say very little yet command immediate respect, while others speak at length but struggle to be taken seriously? The difference often lies not in their expertise or even their confidence, but in specific language patterns that subtly signal low status.
These patterns evolved from our tribal past, where language served as an immediate indicator of someone's position in the social hierarchy. Today, these same verbal cues continue to operate beneath our conscious awareness, triggering instant judgments about competence and authority.
The good news? Once you recognize these credibility killers, you can systematically eliminate them from your communication and replace them with high-status alternatives that position you as the authority in any room.
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